Ok, so you need a little help in the foreplay area… well hopefully these foreplay techniques will provide you with some new great techniques. This is the third and final entry in my foreplay guide (for now at least)… so feel free to check out my previous entries as well.
These are all sexual techniques I use on a regularly, and quite frequently I get comments on how good I am with my hands, and how enjoyable it was. Am I trying to show off? No… I’m just saying this stuff works, and it works well. If you apply these techniques, sexual pleasure awaits your woman.
Now if you’ve read my other articles, you’ll know I’m big on lots of foreplay. You can’t just dive into things and start going for her genitals without getting her ready. First off, if she’s not ready it’s not going to be pleasurable for her, and second, it will take much more to get her to orgasm. Anticipation is the key here.
Ok, so your girl’s ready… she’s wet… she’s breathing hard… she wants more… what do you do? Well check out these three awesome techniques for her sexual pleasure.
Sexual Technique #1 – The Come Hither
Ok, so you don’t just want to go shoving your fingers straight in there and hurting always start off gently. Run your finger up and down her genitals a couple times, and gently try to part her “lips”. Once you’ve done so, very slowly insert two fingers (I generally use the index and middle finger, but you may prefer the middle finger and ring finger).
Again, start off slowly moving your fingers straight in and out a few times. Now… the “come hither”. Once your fingers are all the way in, gently curl them upwards, and pull them backwards (not all the way out). Again… in straight… curl up, and back. If you do this motion in the air, you’ll see why it’s called the come hither… like telling someone to come to you.
Now the goal here is to put some pressure on her upper vaginal wall, as this can be a very pleasurable area for her, and it’s where the g-spot is located. When first starting, go very very gently… too much pressure and you’ll cause pain, or she just won’t be ready for it. You can really build up some good speed and pressure here, but make sure she’s ok… simply ask her… “Are you ok? Do you want me to go faster? Harder?”. What better way to know what she wants.
Sexual Technique #2 – The Finger Flutter
This technique again has to do with putting pressure on her upper vaginal wall. As your fingers are already inside her, go in fairly deep. Now simply “flutter” your fingers up and down (there is no in and out motion here). In contrast to the come hither where you’re bending your fingers at the second knuckle (the one closest to the tip of your finger), here your fingers remain straight and you bend them at the first knuckle. Imagine the first knuckle acting as a hinge to simply move your fingers up and down.
You’ll want to experiment with speed and position here. The girl you’re with may like this done super deep, or she may like it shallow… or she may like both! Who knows… judge by her breathing and moaning (and what she tells you of course).
Sexual Technique #3 – The Squirter
Now as the name implies, this technique may induce a little squirting… caution! Actually the other techniques may as well, but this one is the most likely to do so. Some women are able to squirt very easily (generally older women), while other can’t at all, or aren’t sure how to control this ability yet. So don’t expecting squirting 100% here, but it may happen.
OK so what to do. Insert your fingers fairly deep, and curl them upwards (as in the come hither). Now simple move your entire hand up and down so you’re hitting the upper wall over and over. Start gently so you know that your woman likes it. I know this technique seems so crude, but trust me… some women just love it.
I’m often amazed at how hard and fast I can go when using this technique… it can get going very hard and very fast. You’d think it would cause pain, but she’s moaning in ecstasy.
Experiment with speed, pressure, and position with all three of the above techniques. Judge whether she’s into it based on her breathing, moaning, and what she tells you. If you’ve never been with a certain girl before, be sure to ask if she’s OK and whether she likes it or not… this is the only sure way you’re going to know.
Alright guys… put these techniques to action, and get those orgasms going!